Daniel ~Kevin~ Murray

1985 - 2003
LocationLanark, Scotland
Age18 years
Cause of DeathHit and Run
Date of Birth01/03/1985
Date of Death13/04/2003
Visitors9,358 since 22/10/2008
Creator

~Wee Danny (As he was known by) was 18 yrs and 2 weeks young when he was hit by a car and killed instantly~


Wee Danny was born on Friday 1st March (St.David's Day) 1985 at 17.05pm at Rutherglen Maternity, Rutherglen, Glasgow. He was the first of our three children and it was to be after 19 gruelling hours in labour and getting a spinal, that he decided I'd had enough and he made his entrance into the world with the help of a forceps delivery and weighing in at a whopping 9lbs 1 oz! I'll never forget when the midwife gave him to me, I could harldy hold him, he felt so heavy and his hands were like shovels!!! I was affectionately known as the wee lassie wi the big wean in room 4! I was so proud and chuffed at myself first of all!!! Here was me I had just participated in this mind blowing painful event... giving birth!! Secondly, I had my 'boy! Daniel Kevin Murray was the name I had picked out all along. He was the 3rd generation Danny, after his Dad, Danny (ma hubby), and his Grandpa, 'Big Dan' (ma hubby's Dad). ~The Three Danny's~~~

My Heart Broke and a big chunk of my life ended when
Our son Danny Jnr or 'Wee Danny' as he was known by, was hit by a car and killed
instantly in the early hours of Sunday 13th April 2003, while walking with 9
other friends to a friends house after a night out. We weren't expecting him
home that night, he had his overnight bag as they were all going Ten Pin Bowling
the next day. My everlasting memory of Wee Danny was on the Saturday evening
squashed into the back of our neighbours Fathers tiny car (he had scrounged a
lift, so I wouldn't need to get out my nightie to give him a lift). He looked so
handsome, smart and grown up. He never did come back home.
As I wanted us to be a family of
five just for one more night, I brought Danny home to be with us the night before his
funeral. His coffin was closed (only because Louise & Paul were
still very young and a bit, well, need I say?) A big part of me and my heart
died with Danny and as each single day has passed since losing him, its a
constant struggle for survival to get back into whatever I have to get back into,
My life? my hubby? my other 2 kids?
I'm still here and doing the best I can by them, its hard and every day is a
constant, painful, struggle to survive!! I Miss him so, so much.
I miss him thundering up the hallway when he couldn't find what he was looking for, saying:
"see this hoose!!!" and its all so quiet now. The pain is unbearable at times. We live in a
small town, As Wee Danny's funeral was so big, (there were 15 trucks in the funeral procession) so traffic had to be re-routed! People ask "How did you feel that day? How did you get through it"? Honestly? Looking back as I do always, I felt very humbled, that all these people had came from far and wide. I actually felt embarrassed leaving Chapel, as it was standing room only (Trust us Murray's, anything for a scene?) He would have been so chuffed with all the trucks. I found myself asking on the day how everyone else was??? It was the next day, when I woke up and thought, 'Oh My God'!! What do I do now? How did I feel? I wanted to die, again! But.....I'm here, I have my memories and I know he's at peace, is happy and creating havoc in a very special place. I can't wait to see him again and give him one of my 'Special Hugs' The only thing I've learned through this unbelievable nightmare, is just how quick 'Those precious to us can be taken' Life is so short and you have only one go at it!

I Actually Know What A Broken Heart Is Now~

~Relampago Esta En Mi Corazon Para Siempre~
(Spanish For 'Flash Is In My Heart Forever' Was Wee Danny's Nickname)

Thank You So Much For Taking The Time To Read My Story
Pamela x

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Tributes

Hi Danny,thinking about you and hoping that you are watching over your family.C

Carolyn Cruickshank

October 11, 2011

Missing You xxx

Pamela Murray (Mum)

August 22, 2011

Hi Danny,Thinking about you son.Cx

Carolyn Cruickshank

August 15, 2011

A young man gone too soon

Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like A Sunset
Dying With The Rising Of The Moon
Gone Too Soon

Carolyn x

Carolyn Cruickshank

June 17, 2011

Hello

Hi Danny,I cannot believe that it is 8 years since you died,I am sad that I was not able to see the young man that you were to become.You are truly loved.Carolyn x

Carolyn Cruickshank

May 17, 2011

I have not turned my back on you,
so there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven,
just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
when you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
and watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain,
then I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
while I wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
we'll meet again one day,
beyond the dark and stormy sky,
a Rainbow lights the way

Pamela Murray (Mum)

April 13, 2011



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Jude Swaddle

April 13, 2011

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Barbara Rose

April 13, 2011

BIG HUGS DANIEL

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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰

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⋱♰⋰ family and friends that you miss you ever day ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ but in our hearts forever you will not be ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ and Granddaughter of Albert and ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Marie-Jeanne Belanger take care ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ hugs and XXXX bye for now good ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰

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Sylvie Belanger

April 13, 2011

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FOR MONDAY

Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.

FOR TUESDAY

In our hearts your memory lingers,
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day,
That we do not think of you.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Your life was a blessing
Your memory a treasure...
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure...

FOR THURSDAY

You are not forgotten loved one
Nor will you ever be.
As long as life and memory last
We will remember thee.

FOR FRIDAY

After Glow

I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done.

I'd like to leave an echo
Whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days

I'd like the tears
Of those who grieve,
To dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave

When life is done.

FOR SATURDAY

I'm Free

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took His hand when I heard Him call
I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I found that peace at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship started, a laugh, a kiss,
Ah yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine to tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savoured much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me
God wanted me now; He set me free.

FOR SUNDAY

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not here to see...
If the sun should rise and find your
Eyes filled with tears for me,

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today...
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you...
And each time you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand...
That Jesus came and called my name,
And took me by the hand.

He said my place was ready
In Heaven far above...
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart...
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here in your heart.


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……………Thoughts Today, Memories Forever

………….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

January 15, 2011
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