| Location | Lanark, Scotland |
| Age | 18 years |
| Cause of Death | Hit and Run |
| Date of Birth | 01/03/1985 |
| Date of Death | 13/04/2003 |
| Visitors | 5,178 since 22/10/2008 |
| Creator |
~Wee Danny (As he was known by) was 18 yrs and 2 weeks young when he was hit by a car and killed
instantly~
Wee Danny was born on Friday 1st March (St.David's Day) 1985 at 17.05pm at Rutherglen Maternity,
Rutherglen, Glasgow. He was the first of our three children and it was to be after 19 gruelling
hours in labour and getting a spinal, that he decided I'd had enough and he made his entrance into
the world with the help of a forceps delivery and weighing in at a whopping 9lbs 1 oz! I'll never
forget when the midwife gave him to me, I could harldy hold him, he felt so heavy and his hands were
like shovels!!! I was affectionately known as the wee lassie wi the big wean in room 4! I was so
proud and chuffed at myself first of all!!! Here was me I had just participated in this mind
blowing painful event... giving birth!! Secondly, I had my 'boy! Daniel Kevin Murray was the name I
had picked out all along. He was the 3rd generation Danny, after his Dad, Danny (ma hubby), and his
Grandpa, 'Big Dan' (ma hubby's Dad). ~The Three Danny's~~~
My Heart Broke and a big chunk of my life ended when
Our son Danny Jnr or 'Wee Danny' as he was known by, was hit by a car and killed
instantly in the early hours of Sunday 13th April 2003, while walking with 9
other friends to a friends house after a night out. We weren't expecting him
home that night, he had his overnight bag as they were all going Ten Pin Bowling
the next day. My everlasting memory of Wee Danny was on the Saturday evening
squashed into the back of our neighbours Fathers tiny car (he had scrounged a
lift, so I wouldn't need to get out my nightie to give him a lift). He looked so
handsome, smart and grown up. He never did come back home.
As I wanted us to be a family of
five just for one more night, I brought Danny home to be with us the night before his
funeral. His coffin was closed (only because Louise & Paul were
still very young and a bit, well, need I say?) A big part of me and my heart
died with Danny and as each single day has passed since losing him, its a
constant sruggle for survival to get back into whatever I have to get back into,
My life? my hubby? my other 2 kids?
I'm still here and doing the best I can by them, its hard and every day is a
constant, painful, struggle to survive!! I Miss him so, so much.
I miss him thundering up the hallway when he couldn't find what he was looking for, saying:
"see this hoose!!!" and its all so quiet now. The pain is unbearable at times. We live in a
small town, As Wee Danny's funeral was so big,(there were 15 trucks in the funeral procession)so the
traffic had to be re-routed! People ask "how did you feel that day? how did you get through it"?
Honestly? Looking back as I do always, I felt very humbled, that all these people had came from far
and wide. I actually felt embarrassed leaving Chapel, as it was standing room only (Trust us
Murray's, anything for a scene?) He would have been so chuffed with all the trucks. I found myself
asking on the day how everyone else was??? It was the next day, when I woke up and thought, 'Oh My
God'!! What do I do now? How did I feel? I wanted to die, again! But.....I'm here, I have my
memories and I know he's at peace, is happy and creating havoc in a very special place. I can't wait
to see him again and give him one of my 'Special Hugs' The only thing I've learned through this, is
just how quick 'those precious to us can be taken' Life is so short and you have only one go at it!
I Know Now What 'A Broken Heart' Actually Is Now~
~Relampago Esta En Mi Corazon Para Siempre~
LOVE TO DANIEL & PAMELA XX
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SENDING BLESSINGS TO YOU MY.......
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LOVE TO DANIEL & PAMELA XX
BOTTLE OF LOVE ~*~
♥ I bottled up a bunch of hugs
To send them off to you,
♥ Friendship hugs, hugs of love,
Even bear hugs too!
♥ It's filled with the most special hugs,
Only the very best would do!
♥ I hope that you'll remember this
Whenever you feel blue,
♥ Because these special, bottled hugs
Should last the whole year through!
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♥ WITH LOVE AND THANKS FROM Annex
Secret Garden…All Poetry
Fresh morning dew, still dripping from the rose,
the blue birds sing their wishful, songs of hopes.
My garden has still breath - it alone knows,
the secrets that are bound with grassy ropes.
Pure love is endless – the bird’s sing of truth,
sweet blossoms bow so humbly, to their voice.
They rest in old age and then dance in youth,
blameless and pure of heart - they all rejoice.
They're out of sight - hidden - like precious gems,
the rainbows do yield, while all time transcends.
The roses stand tall on their thorny stems,
as giving thanks, to their fair feathered friends.
My secret garden cast your spell in mist.
Mark down your truths on an unending list.
Wishing you and mum a lovely evening, i am sure you will be close by....
God Bless.
Generations have asked
Where in the body is soul’s place?
What fallacy, this endeavor
As if mortal frame could contain
Eternity.
The body’s in the soul--
Surrounded by its
Soft shell carapace
Of forever.
--Francine L. Trevens, "Fallacy"
Sending some Sunday love.
God Bless
TO DANIEL X
♥ღ♥ Irish Blessing ♥ღ♥
♥ღ♥ May the road
rise up to meet you,
May the wind
be always at your back,
May the sun shine
warm upon your face,
And the rains fall
soft upon your fields,
And until we meet again,
May God hold you
in the palm of His hand ♥ღ♥
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"Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting;
The soul that rises with us, our life's star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar;
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But railing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home."
-William Wordsworth
I believe when we return home and God looks us over, he is not searching for how many degrees or how many medals we have won, or how much riches we have gathered. He is looking for our scars to heal.
God Bless.
Each night we shed a silent tear,
as we speak to you in prayer.
To let you know we love you,
and just how much we care.
Take our million teardrops,
Wrap them up in love,
and then ask the wind to carry them,
to you in heaven above.
23RD MAY 2009
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17TH MAY 2009
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PEACEFUL SUNDAY, IN
HEAVEN..GOD BLESS. X ♥ ღ ♥
To honour you
To honour you, I get up everyday and take a breath
And start another day without you in it.
To honour you, I laugh and love with those who knew your smile
and the way your eyes twinkled with mischief and secret knowledge
To honour you, I take the time to appreciate everyone I love
I know now there is no guarantee of days or hours spent in their presence.
To honour you I listen to music you would have liked
And sing at the tope of my lungs, with the windows rolled down.
To honour you I take chances, say what I feel hold nothing back
Risk making a fool of myself, dance every dance.
You were my light, my heart, my gift of love, from the very highest source.
So everyday, I vow to make a difference, share a smile, live, laugh and love.
Now I live for both of us, so all I do, I do to honour you.....
Love and God Bless.
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